Category: Alternative Lifestyles
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Intimate Asynchrony: Navigating Misalignment in Relationships
I use the term “Intimate Asynchrony” to refer to the misalignment, discordance, or lack of harmony that naturally occurs in intimate relationships. Connection happens across several domains, including emotional, physical, intellectual, and experiential. Asynchrony occurs when partners find themselves operating on different frequencies in one or more of these areas. This “out of sync” feeling…
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Expanding the Rhythm: Managing Intimate Asynchrony in ENM, Polycules, and Thruples
When you have multiple partners, you are managing a symphony of different emotional, physical, and scheduling frequencies. If not managed with Radical Transparency, this asynchrony can lead to jealousy, neglect, and structural collapse.
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What is Kink-and-Poly Aware Therapy, and Why Does it Matter?
Beyond Non-Judgmental When seeking a therapist, many people look for a non-judgmental space. For members of the Kink, BDSM, or Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM/Poly) communities, “non-judgmental” isn’t enough; it is the bare minimum. You need a clinician who is truly Kink-and-Poly Aware and Affirming, so you feel seen and respected in your identity. For too long,…
