Therapeutic Approach and Philosophy

What is My Therapeutic Approach?

My therapeutic approach integrates existential therapy, mindfulness practices, and strengths-based frameworks to help individuals and couples navigate complex relational dynamics. My practice is sex-positive, neurodiversity-affirming, and built around comprehensive coordinated care across individual and relational treatment providers.

Core Modalities and Frameworks

I utilize an integrative model that balances emotional depth with actionable structural tools.

Therapeutic FrameworkClinical PurposeClient Outcome
Existential TherapyExplores core questions of agency, responsibility, isolation, and personal meaning within relationship systems.Fosters personal accountability, authentic choices, and deeper alignment with core values.
Mindfulness TechniquesDevelops somatic awareness, emotional regulation, and non-judgmental present-moment grounding.Reduces reactivity during high-conflict conversations and anxiety during intimacy.
Strengths-Based LensIdentifies existing resilience, internal resources, and unique partner strengths.Shifts therapy away from pathology toward collaborative problem-solving.

What is Comprehensive Coordinated Care?

Comprehensive Coordinated Care is a collaborative treatment framework where I actively consult with individual therapists, medical providers, and care teams, if the client (or clients) approve. By proactively utilizing Releases of Information (ROIs), I ensure relational therapy aligns with and supports your existing individual treatment goals without contradicting or disrupting ongoing progress.

Key Benefits of Coordinated Relational Care

  • Aligned Treatment Goals: Keeps individual and relationship therapists working toward complementary objectives.
  • Reduced Relational Friction: Prevents relationship distress from stalling individual psychological growth.
  • Integrated Care Teams: Supports parents, partners, and individual clients through unified professional collaboration.

My Core Practice Values

Neurodiversity-Affirming Care

I recognize executive dysfunction, sensory sensitivities, and differing communication styles as neurological variations rather than character flaws. My interventions focus on practical environmental accommodations and mutual understanding.

Sex-Positive and Culturally Competent Support

I provide affirmative therapy for ethical/consensual non-monogamy (ENM/CNM), polyamory, kink, and diverse sexual expressions. Along with a long personal history of supporting and working with sex-positive frameworks, I am pursuing advanced training through the AASECT certification track to ensure informed, non-judgmental support for desire discrepancies and intimacy navigation.

Structural Relationship Template and Relationship Mapping

When appropriate, I use a structured Relationship Structure Template to help couples and relationship systems define clear boundaries, roles, and expectations during key transitions. For ethical/consensual non-monogamous relationships, I may use a variant of the genogram called Relationship Mapping.

Compliance Notice: Andrew Robertson, AMFT# 158068 (under the supervision of Melissa Volchok, LMFT #120203).